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Memorial in Florida

Debbi and I are back from a trip to Florida for her father’s interment and memorial.

Her father Jerry was diagnosed with cancer back in 2013. She went back to help out him and her stepmother back then, which I vaguely mentioned at the time. Then in late 2015 we went out to visit them, expecting that it might well be the last time we saw him in person. And it was, but I don’t think anyone would expect he’d make it another nine years. While he was in assisted living for the second half of that span, it sounds like his quality of life was decent for most of it. He had a fair amount of memory loss, but seemed to remember the important things. He passed away earlier this winter.

Anyway, people have been offering condolences when I mention it, which is certainly nice, but I think both Debbi and I had come to recognize that this day was not far off, so while it was sad, it was far from a shock.

We flew Alaska Airlines on a Thursday from San Francisco to Orlando. We’d never flown Alaska before, and we bought first class tickets because for whatever reason they were not that much more expensive than the other options. So it was a pretty nice trip, even though we had to get up at 3:30 am to get up to SFO for a 7:15 am flight. (Traveling stressed me out generally, but packing up and leaving when it’s still dark out especially does. I am super-careful to do a nose count on the cats before heading out the door.)

We’ve had some dodgy times with flying in the last couple of years, but our flights this time went perfectly smoothly: On-time departures, early landings up by to 45 minutes each direction, and the meals were tasty. I even fell asleep before take-off on the flight out and woke up an hour later.

It’s a pretty long drive from Orlando to her parents’ place, so it was a long day for us. We rented a Chevrolet Malibu sedan, which was a perfectly cromulent car. Not something I’m jumping to want to buy myself, but it was easy to figure out, and had CarPlay.

Debbi reserved a house through Airbnb for us, her two sisters, and her two nieces and nephew. It was a really good experience! The host let everyone else get in a couple of hours early since they arrived well before us, and the place was spacious, clean, had a hot tub in back which others enjoyed, and a comfy couch. If anything, the only thing we’d have liked were more pillows.

(Yes, I know Airbnb is a problematic company as its co-founder is a shitty human being supporting Donald Trump and Elon Musk’s fascism. They did look at Vrbo but this place was more convenient and cheaper.)

The interment happened the next day at a VA cemetery, as Jerry had served in the Navy during Vietnam (and didn’t like to talk about it). They had a military salute (6 guns fired 3 times, if I counted correctly), and then we went back to the retirement community for a banquet gathering of family and friends. I got a meet a number of Debbi’s relatives (at least a couple of whom said “I recognize you from Facebook!”), including her one step-brother I hadn’t met – except that I actually had 20 years ago, but didn’t remember him, as it was very brief.

On Saturday we went back to hang out with everyone and take advantage of the pool, where several of us came away with sunburns of various degrees (mine was pretty mild, fortunately). In the evening I watched the season 2 finale of Severance, which I should write about sometime.

Some folks left on Saturday, and the rest of our household left early Sunday morning. Debbi and I had a little extra time to combobulate ourselves, and then we drove back to Orlando where we spent a couple of days at Walt Disney World.

We stayed at the Caribbean Beach Resort, where we had a room conveniently in short walking distance to the Skyliner, a fun and handy way to get to Hollywood Studios and EPCOT, the two parks we visited. We got to eat a bunch of food (some of which would have been 400% better had it been better heated), stand in a bunch of lines, and ride a bunch of rides. The current trend in Disney rides is rotating carriages, as Rise of the Resistance, Ratatouille and Guardians of the Galaxy all feature these vehicles. Guardians was as great as advertised, but maybe not great enough to be worth a 90-minute wait. We did get to do Star Tours twice as it had a short wait, and the second time was definitely worth it as I hadn’t seen the sky whale world before. (The Wookiee world was also pretty great.)

Tuesday we just spent the morning at Disney Springs before driving back to the airport and flying home. We were certainly glad for the early landing on the flight back as it meant we were in bed by around 11 pm (or, 2 am on the east coast).

So all things considered it was a good trip. Some closure for some people, I think. And good to see some people we otherwise wouldn’t see. A bit hectic to have such a trip pop up on fairly short notice, but these things happen when you get to this point in your life.

To Disney World – and Beyond!

We’re back from our big vacation for the year! Debbi and I flew to Florida to visit her parents, and then spend several days at Walt Disney World with Debbi’s friend Lisa and her husband Jeff.

We flew out two weeks ago, on Friday November 6, on United Airlines, which is the only airline with direct flights from the Bay Area to Orlando. It’s the first time in quite a few years I’ve flown one of the so-called major carriers (we fly JetBlue to visit our families in Boston, and smaller carriers around the west coast), so I was a bit worried about the experience, but it was actually fine: The flight was only slightly delayed, and the seats were not as cramped as I had feared they might be. Once we landed we rented a car and drove a couple of hours (with a stop for dinner) to Debbi’s parents’ house.

Her parents live in a nice community on the Gulf coast. Once we arrived, we stayed up a bit late that first night since we were still on west coast time (and we didn’t get in until close to 9 pm).

The one downer to the trip was that central Florida was setting temperature records for the first few days we were there; Saturday it got into the 90s and had very high humidity, which made for a pretty nasty day to be outside. Despite this we went out to an art fair and got lunch at a restaurant and did not completely melt. But we were pretty motivated to spend much of the rest of the visit with her parents inside in the air conditioning due to the weather.

Sunday Debbi’s uncle (her father’s brother) and his wife came to visit for a few hours, so I got to see a bit of the family resemblance (and hear a little of the family gossip). Debbi thinks she hasn’t seen her uncle since her sister got married almost 20 years ago, and everyone had a good time.

We got up a couple of mornings to go running (me) and walking (Deb), which was about as rough as you’d expect since it was mid-70s and muggy even at 8 am. But the humidity did start to go down so the second day was a bit more pleasant than the first, even if it was still hot.

Monday we went down late in the day to the Venice chalk festival, but we got there just as the one rain shower of the week kicked in, so we went back again on Tuesday. It was pretty neat, even though we were there for the early stages of the drawing! A big 3D painting from the previous year was done in latex paint and was still there, and the same crew were working on a larger painting to set a world record. And there were several smaller pieces in progress. I observed that the references the artists were working from were stretched onto a perspective grid so they would have a 3D look when placed on the ground – a technique I remember my dad showing me when I was a kid.

Otherwise we had a pretty relaxed time visiting her parents. I spent a bunch of time playing The Room Three on my iPad (which is great – each installment has been better than the last), and I read one book and part of another. I believe Debbi got through a few more books, too. So, it was a good visit.

Oh, one wrench in the trip was that our cat sitter e-mailed us that on Monday the dish washer had somehow gotten filled with water and leaked onto the kitchen floor. It didn’t seem to have gotten too bad, but it happened the day of a big rain storm, which made us worry that something was backing up from the outside or that something else had happened. The sitter shut off the water to the washer just in case and said she’d keep an eye on it for us.

Wednesday we drove back to Orlando and dropped off the rental car. Lisa picked us up and we spent the evening at her house before heading to Disney World on Thursday. We stayed in a suite at the Saratoga Springs resort and took the bus to and from the theme parks. This was a bit annoying as they don’t run enough buses (in my opinion), and sometimes they get bogged down in traffic. But, so it goes. The suite itself was nice, though.

We last visited Disney World in 2007 with Debbi’s family, so we did things a little differently this time: We didn’t go to Animal Kingdom, and we spent more time in Epcot. Thursday we first went into the Magic Kingdom, followed by Epcot Thursday night and Friday, Hollywood Studios on Saturday, and back to the Magic Kingdom on Sunday. We used the FastPass+ system to plan out rides for the various days, and used Magic Bands for admission. These are new systems since we last visited, and which are not yet available at Disneyland, but they’re pretty convenient.

A big difference between Disneyland and Disney World is that the parks at Disney World are much larger. This has the advantage that you do not feel as packed in with the other people as at Disneyland, but it also means you have to walk farther to get between places, and that though it might not feel as crowded, it might actually be more crowded, and thus the lines for attractions might actually be longer.

Among the most fun things on this visit was Epcot’s International Food & Wine Festival. Epcot features exhibits from many countries around the world, and the festival set up booths where food and drink associated with each nation was available. And lots of it was really good! I especially remember some crispy pork belly, and an especially good glass of sangria. Of course, being Disney, I wondered how authentic the food selections were, and scratched my head at Argentina being referred to as Patagonia, and the lack of diversity of African stations (one was just called “Africa”!). But I didn’t worry about it that much.

The FastPass+ selections were handy for getting to some of the most popular rides, although it was strange not being able to just walk on to some of them if the lines were short as at Disneyland – because the lines were rarely short. It was also weird not knowing where many things were, or things being just a little different at the Magic Kingdom than at Disneyland (no New Orleans Square, no Indiana Jones). Some of the rides are slightly different too, such as some of the details being moved around on Pirates of the Caribbean or The Haunted Mansion.

Though we spent most of our time at the parks, we did come back on Friday to relax in the room for a bit, and came back early on Saturday and went down to the pool. Had we had more free time I might have gone running, since their running path was about the right length for the distance I’m currently running.

Anyway, we all had a good time. Debbi has been wanting to do this trip for several years, and we’d postponed it either due to my Mom’s health, or because I wanted to go to Cape Cod last year. I think she wishes we’d spent a couple more days at Disney World so we weren’t running around quite so much. Maybe next time!

On our flight home we bought first class seats, because for some reason they were a lot cheaper for this leg than for the flight out. And factoring in baggage fees and extra leg room seats – both included in first class – it was not a lot more than we would have been spending anyway. And it was pretty nice! Only two people per row per side, with a two-course meal for dinner (and better food than I’d expected), with wine and warm cookies added in. To top it off our luggage came out first on the other end. The only wrinkle was that we hit some nasty turbulence which caused Debbi’s wine glass to take a dive off her tray table and break, but at least it didn’t hurt anyone (plus it was empty).

We took today off from work to catch up on sleep and get some things done. And a good thing, too, since we both came down with colds, probably from the flight. Nothing too horrible, but definitely feeling under the weather.

Fortunately, no further incidents with the dish washer, even though there was another rain storm last weekend. Strange.

So that was our big fall trip! And now back to reality, and to brace ourselves for the holiday season.